So I'm meeting with my CPA yesterday. Great guy. We've used him for 25 years. As I'm pulling into his office yesterday, I noticed a Hong Kong Spa across the street from his office building. So we're just chit chatting after the meeting and I bring up the Hong Kong Spa and how it looks like a place where one could get a "Happy Ending". He laughs and tells me he has some "acquaintances" that go there and that it's definitely a Happy Ending type place. He then goes on to tell me how he's been on the receiving end of a Happy Ending at one of those types of places.
It didn't really surprise me because his wife is borderline crazy. He's the 3rd friend that's told me they've participated in Happy Ending spas over the past year! It got me thinking? Am I just naive or do more men than I thought go to these places? It's adultery any way you look at it. But I suppose it is kind of harmless to an extent. It's not like your out humping hookers every other week. Just thought I would throw that out here to see what everyone's thoughts we're on this phenomena?
It's not like your out humping hookers everyother week. Never been It feels good when I get a massage on my back, and I imagine it would also feel good if they massaged my junk, except in a slightly different way. That's cool I only need about 2 minutes anyway. DFW brings up an interesting point. If you are paying a woman to massage your back, no big deal, right?
I get massages from time to time and my wife obviously doesn't think anything of it. It's just a massage. A simple business arrangement. There is no emotion involved. However, if the hot lady neighbor across the street invited me into her bedroom for a back massage, I'm guessing that CW would not be okay with that, even if it was "just" a back massage. Where do we draw the line? If I'm paying for a rub 'n' tug, should she be upset? There's no emotion involved. Seems like one less thing she has to do.
I get massages from time to time andmy wife obviously doesn't think anything of it. One less thing CW has to do. Go ahead and do it then try splainin it to her that way I go all of the time! But I'm single. If I was married I would hope I wouldn't do anything that I wouldn't tell my wife about. I'd guess most wives would consider it cheating. I have a friend who is gay- wondered into one, he says on impulse.
